2003-06-26 - 8:53 a.m.
[my quiz answers]My self-test
Hey I just woke up this morning and whoa!....I only have a few miserable pathetic days to finish studying..-__-! Instant word: DIE! Hahahz...well I have been studying and a few nice stuff have happened..but this is not my main objective here! Just wanted to paste this down from this test I took from SELFNET
Your Analysis:
The Neuter
Yes, you're in the fast lane to Friend-ville…
…which isn't necessarily a bad thing unless you're trying to get to the love shack and took a wrong turn somewhere between "Hi, what's your name?" and "Would you like to have dinner with me?"
Perhaps you're looking to ease into a romance: you enjoy the process of getting to know someone and becoming friends before stepping into anything more serious. If, however, you're so afraid of rejection that you're overcompensating with the incessant "we're just friends" routine, then you need to take another look at your modus operandi. Or, perhaps your interest in the person just isn't that strong, which means you might want to take a look at whether you're leading this poor soul on.
You want to spice things up but don't know how? Instead of keeping three feet of personal space between you and your secret crush, move in a little closer. Pay attention to your body language and make sure you're emitting the right signals (sometimes your shyness can come across as aloofness - read Colorgenics' feature article on body language for more tips). Going out with him/her on a Saturday night? Skip the boring dinner-and-a-movie date and put some thought into creating some sparks with a more personal or romantic outing. Most importantly: flirt! There's no harm in it and for once try to forget that nagging fear of rejection: if you feel confident enough to flirt, than the feelings are most likely reciprocated.
Whatever you do, remember that life is short, and if you play the friend hand too long, that special someone will look for his or her straight flush somewhere else.